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By Matthew Fitzgerald Men hate to get rejected by women. There's nothing worse than having your ego smashed to little pieces when the woman of your (wet) dreams turns you down for a date. You really thought she was interested, but somehow you must have misread her signals... From the male point of view, women are often far too subtle and indirect -- or just plain confusing -- when revealing their romantic interest (unless you happen to be really good-looking and loaded with cash, in which case they call you ). And yes, women often give out mixed messages because they're not sure themselves about what's going on inside their heads. So what most guys are looking for is a set of clear signals that a woman is definitely warm for their form. Does this exist? Well, here are a few signs that she probably wants you to ask her out. 1- She's "in your face" All of a sudden, you'll become aware of her presence everywhere -- she "just happens" to show up ...

By Matthew Fitzgerald Men love their freedom. For many guys, the very thought of making a commitment to one woman for the rest of their lives is enough to send them sprinting for the hills. The dreaded "C-word" implies compromise, loss of independence, the sacrifice of sexual variety, and the looming specter of financial devastation. And the statistics bear this out -- the U.S. Census reports that, over the past four decades, the rate of marriage has definitely been on the decrease. According to the National Marriage Project, a study undertaken at Rutgers University, men today are overwhelmingly apprehensive about getting married. Cohabitation -- commitment with an escape hatch -- is on the rise. So what is the explanation for this phenomenon? Just why are men so afraid of commitment these days? Here are a few of the reasons: No more freedom We men are extremely independent by nature. We like to make our own decisions and run our lives by our own rules. We want to do what w...

By Matthew Fitzgerald You're the man -- you've finally worked up the nerve to ask out your potential Miss Right. And there she is, right over there. It's now or never. You take a step in her direction... ... and suddenly your pits are dripping like springtime in a rain forest, your heart is flip-flopping like a dying fish and your stomach is churning out enough acid to melt steel. Chill, dude. You know you can't back down now. You drag your feet to her side. From somewhere, you hear yourself asking those fateful words: "Would you like to go out sometime?" "No." What? She said, "No." You trudge away, eyes on the floor, praying that no one has witnessed your public humiliation. Rejection sucks . Unfortunately, despite all the shrill female demands in our society for "equal rights," the burden of asking for the date still sits squarely on the shoulders of the male. It still remains the guy's responsibility to risk getting his ...

By Matthew Fitzgerald Women can get sex anywhere, any time and any way they want it. The problem for us guys is that women don’t want sex anywhere, any time and any way we want it. For women, sex comes bundled up with an onslaught of dizzying and complicated emotions, most of which they don’t seem to deal with very well. The result? It’s infinitely easier for women to place men into the category of “friends” rather than admit them as lovers. In fact, for a woman, a male friend is the best of both worlds: She can reap all the benefits of having a man around (strength, decision-making, solid advice, logic, common sense, and so on) without the hormone-based entanglements that sex brings to the table. But men are different. Since we aren’t saddled with psychologically crippling emotions, we aren’t burdened with the senselessness of separating friendship from sex. In fact, for us, it’s just the opposite: When a man likes a woman, he naturally wants to express his feelings by drilling he...

The relationship between men and women has always been a love hate relationship . From the time of creation, men and women have been attracted to each other for several reasons, the inborn creative urge being the chief one. This attraction is likely to continue for a long, longtime to come, despite the 'recent' public declaration of sexual relationships among men and among women. However, women find a lot of annoying as well as attractive things in the actions and behavior of men. It would be interesting to find out what women think of as annoying or hate about men. Psychoanalysts have the view that women basically contradict themselves while expressing what they desire and do not desire in men. It is normally held that women like so called strong, silent men. They openly admit that they do not like weak men. This dislike is in the top of the list of women in what they find annoying in men. However, it is also true that women secretly like to have power over the ...

If we consider the history of the institution of marriage, all of us would agree that it started at the time of creation itself. Man and woman are different both biologically and in mental makeup. However, the creation would not continue if man and woman do not come together. The physical and emotional needs unite man and woman and marriages take place. Till the beginning of the twentieth century, joint families and lifetime single marriages were quite prevalent. Divorces were few and far in between. However, things started changing as more and more women took up careers and achieved financial independence. The dependence of women on men declined and even small disagreements were magnified to a large extent that they were considered to be impinging on the individuality. Let us consider the top 15 reasons why couples break up. Desire to be independent. Getting attracted to another person. Infidelity. Physical incompatibility. Less attracted...

It is said that the love of a man for woman could be recognized very easily but it is very difficult to define it. There are no clear-cut formulae to explain love. However, here are a few tips that had been provided by people who are supposed to be knowledgeable in matters of love. The man can't seem to stop talking to you everyday. He is not dating anybody else except you. He starts treating your mother the way he treats his own mother. He starts using possessive words like ‘we’, ‘our’, and ‘us’ more during conversations with you, particularly when he is talking about the future. He is keeping a photo of yours on his desk. He starts keeping your favorite food items in his refrigerator. He bestows top priority to you over his work and other relationships. He keeps saying nice things about you when he talks to his friends. He does all your errands without the least hesitation. He keeps looking at yo...