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By Dave Singleton “Things were going great until she…”: That’s the refrain I heard when I asked guys what happens when they date a woman and then dump her. I’m not saying that women should bear the brunt of all breakups or feel as if they are to blame. My goal here is to illuminate the kind of behavior that most often turns a guy from happily dating toward thinking, “This isn’t going well….” Hear what they have to say, and see if you can gain a little insight into the male mind that can help you in future relationships. Miss Overly Dependent. “The first six months we dated, she took care of herself and did everything that she needed to do on her own,” says Tim, 33, of St. Louis. “Then she started asking me what I thought about everything. I understand some questions, but it was the daily stuff that I never got asked about before that bugged me. She wanted to know what she should pack for trips that we took, even though she’d already researched the weather and knew the itinerary. She ...

That's Gotta Hurt -- or Does It? by Amy Helmes and Meg Leder "Sayonara." "Get lost." "We need to talk..." Whether you're looking to lessen the sting or hit 'em with your best shot, the following techniques are sure to accomplish the trickiest part of any relationship: ending it. The "We Need to Talk" Talk A State of the Union address is recommended for anyone wishing to secede, so to speak, with some semblance of dignity. Pros: Talking things over can soothe hurt feelings and potentially salvage the friendship. Cons: Brace yourself for histrionics, notes Lynda Twardowski, 31, from Traverse City, MI. "When I finally managed to peel the guy off me, tears streamed down his face and he babbled like a madman." Ouch factor: Three Band-Aids The "Dear John" Who needs a messy confrontation when a note, email or well-timed voice mail can spare you from having to witness the devasta...

Signs that your relationship is over, or is in serious trouble. There are vital relationship signs that indicate your relationship is in trouble and it might be better for you, and your partner, if you end it. Here’s how to know. Toxic disrespect Putting you down, outrageous flirting that makes you feel uncomfortable and humiliated and hurtful remarks that aren't easily forgotten are signs you partner lacks respect for you. You need to be clear about what you will and will not tolerate from your partner. If your partner does not respect you — it's time to go. Abuse Your partner should be there to pick you up when you're down — not put the boot in. If your partner is physically, or emotionally abusive, negative and critical — you don't need to put up with it. And remember that physical abuse is a criminal offence. No trust Trust is vital. Some relationships therapists say it's the backbone of a healthy relationship. If you can't believe what your p...

If we consider the history of the institution of marriage, all of us would agree that it started at the time of creation itself. Man and woman are different both biologically and in mental makeup. However, the creation would not continue if man and woman do not come together. The physical and emotional needs unite man and woman and marriages take place. Till the beginning of the twentieth century, joint families and lifetime single marriages were quite prevalent. Divorces were few and far in between. However, things started changing as more and more women took up careers and achieved financial independence. The dependence of women on men declined and even small disagreements were magnified to a large extent that they were considered to be impinging on the individuality. Let us consider the top 15 reasons why couples break up. Desire to be independent. Getting attracted to another person. Infidelity. Physical incompatibility. Less attracted...